Can You Attend a Marriage Wearing a Tie and Tuxedo?

Whether you’re a man, a bridal party representative, or a tourist, deciding to to a marriage is a big deal. A suit is only worn on the most beautiful times, so if you’re wondering whether you can drain the bow tie and use a traditional tie with your suit, you’ve come to the right place.

Before deciding whether or not a link should be worn with a suit, it’s important to know a little bit more about this kind of attire. Although a tux is usually a different materials and cut, you can wear a tuxedo or a suit for various types of events. The velvet details on a tuxedo are the biggest difference between a coat and a suit, according to Jeanne Foley, co-founder of. “Most outfits have satin collar, satin- covered switches, a satin waistband on the pants, and traditionally, a satin ribbon down the side of the foot  although, some designers exclude that information depending on type choice), while still formal, provide a much more casual appearance when compared to a tuxedo.”

With a suit, a standard necktie is always appropriate, with a tuxedo, however, a bow tie tends to be the preferred finishing touch. That begs the question: Can you ever wear a tie with a tuxedo, or do you always need to choose a bow tie? Here, with help from Foley, Diana Ganz, co- founder of SuitShop, Alyssa DiMarcantonio, head designer for Damari, and Vyanca Scott, style advisor for Suitsupply, we give you all the answers.

Can You Wear a Tie With a Tuxedo?

The accessories, which are what is traditionally paired with a tuxedo, are what make up one of the biggest issues that people face when deciding whether or not to wear it. Some people love the look, but others view it as stuffy. In years past, wearing a bow tie with a tuxedo was mandatory, but the style experts agree the pairing isn’t as clear- cut anymore. “More recently, we’re seeing customers swap the traditional bow tie for a slim necktie”, reveals Foley. “Tuxes are definitely becoming more popular accessories for people who want a less traditional appearance while still achieving the level of formality a tuxedo creates,” says one woman. So, can you wear a standard necktie with a tuxedo? The majority of the time, yes.

Forgoing the traditional bow tie can feel a little unnatural, but Diana Ganz, co- founder of SuitShop, reassures that it’s a personal preference that still adheres to the black- tie. There are no formal “rules” governing when it is appropriate to wear a necktie and a tuxedo. “You really have to go with your gut—based on your comfort level with and what event you are attending,” she explains. Don’t hesitate to go with a tie if the event specifies black tie but you are going to be around mostly friends and family ( and you feel like changing it up a little ).

When Not to Wear a Necktie with a Tuxedo

There are times when you need to wear a bow tie over a necktie, even though it’s obvious that a standard tie is a wearable accessory with a tuxedo. It would be a big mistake if you were a member of a wedding party or group that required you to wear a bow tie. This is typically required if you are a member of a group that requires uniform clothing that is exactly the same for consistency, Foley says. Otherwise, the necktie can be replaced for the bow tie at any time.

Additionally, you might want to avoid wearing a tie if you’re unsure of the venue’s formality. You can never go wrong with the classic bow tie, Foley says, “If you are attending an event where you are uncertain of the guest list and are not as confident about taking fashion risks.” The majority of guests will likely be wearing bow ties, so it’s the best way to go if you want to blend in.

How to Wear a Tuxedo with a Standard Tie

If you intend to pair it with your tuxedo, you should always think twice before purchasing a standard tie in your closet. “A slim ( not skinny ) satin or grosgrain silk necktie works best with a tuxedo”, says Alyssa DiMarcantonio, head designer for Damari. Additionally, she adds that the tuxedo lapels must match when in a tie. “Traditionally, that means a black silk tie, but if your lapels are navy, go with a navy tie”, she adds.

The best thing to do would be to keep things simple and leave your loud prints, thin stripes, and at home. Our recommendation is to keep the tie simple and stick to black or ivory/white for that timeless look that you won’t regret for many years, suggests Foley. The knot of the tie should also be taken into account when choosing a truly fashion-forward outfit. There are several different knot types to choose from, but a Windsor or half-window knot is the most common and straightforward to learn if you’re not a proponent of wearing ties all the time. However, if you’re wearing a with a wing- tip collar, pleats, or studs (or even a cummerbund) DiMarcantonio highly recommends you wear a bow tie—otherwise, the tuxedo will look off- balance. Lastly, opt for a tuxedo shirt that features a classic placket, no placket, or a fly front if you want to wear a traditional necktie.

Other Styling Options for Tuxedos

“The tuxedo has evolved over time, as have its guidelines”, explains DiMarcantonio. A variety of options will let you express your personal style while still adhering to the traditional tux look, if you’re looking for more ways to mix things up. Another entertaining way to veer from the traditional tie or bow tie is an ascot, for instance. “An ascot is just a fancy name for a neck scarf, and they can be worn formally or informally”, explains Ganz. When you want to stand out from the crowd at a large party or special event, the ascot is a very personal look.

However, if you’re attending a more intimate wedding or event and don’t want to risk your style, wear a tie or bow tie. You can still update your look by swapping out your for a matte black option, using a tie pin instead of a bar, or opting for a navy or green tuxedo. Check with the event host and inquire about the party’s size and location, advises Foley. That will let you know how creatively you want to go with your outfit.

Ultimately, you want to dress comfortably, appropriately, and in a way that makes you feel your best. “Style is in the eye of the beholder, and like many fashion ‘rules’ through the years, they are often made to be broken”, says Vyanca Scott, style advisor for Suitsupply. As long as you follow the dress code, you can feel at ease with your formalwear choice, whether you pair it with a tie or bow tie.