Every parent, particularly the mother, aspires to dress their child off to be the cutest little one possible. This was a well-known crime against my mother.
She also taped the scarf she had taken off my brain to prevent damage to the clothing when I was leaving the hospital after giving birth!
However, when this person boldly opposed bright dressing her children, it sparked an absurd argument between her and her spouse.
Was it bad for her father to dress them in a manner he was aware of?
Consider for yourself!
I ( 32f ) have two children,” Theo” ( 2m ) and” Chloe” ( 0.8f ) with my husband” Todd” ( 30m ). I loathe bright colours. Completely cannot.
Although it’s tremendous if others find it enjoyable, there is something about it that irritates me. I also object to dressing my children in it because I do n’t want them to wear it.
Todd is aware of this and frequently gives me bright props whenever he wants to make a joke. Whatever, it’s his cash that I’m donating to Goodwill or tossing into the garbage.
He laughs off my explicit promise to not love him enough when I wear it on him, even though I’m only fifth joking.
And when the pair was shopping for their child, this divergent style mind developed…
When Theo was born I was n’t as far as I would’ve liked to have been in my career.
However, I was promoted, and now that I have the money, I’ve been a little over with outfitting my children and taking pictures.
To publish for infant books and other publications on social media instead of social media. This is on my mother and grandmother’s shoulders.
When we went shopping for a pretty little outfit for my daughter, we accidentally happened to be going there as a family.
While there, on the clearing plate, there was this bright green one item that caught my father’s vision.
She was unfavorably surprised when he showed her the bright monstrosity.
He inquired as to whether Theo did meet it when I saw it.
Todd and I simply sat next to him, told him to look at our brother, and therefore look at what he was holding, and he quickly determined that it was too small.
Then, I said,” It looks like Chloe would fit it perfectly.” Todd emailed to ask if we could get it, and I responded with a firm” No” in a moment.
When he inquired as to why, I simply replied that I would n’t wear “my child” that outfit and instructed him to return it.
Todd argued, however, that Chloe was also his child and that he had the same influence as she did.
That’s what triggered the” she’s my daughter to” explanation.
I just walked ahead, paid for the clothes I wanted, and went to the vehicle.
The item was purchased by my partner who met us there.
I sighed and decided to capitulate and Todd felt winning.
Todd kept going.
As we prepare for a family vacation next week, Todd says he would prefer Chloe to use the neon green outfit, and I respond, “okay.”
When I ask Chloe where she is about an hour after, Todd looks at me confusedly and we are standing at the door.
I assumed he would be the one to dress her in because Todd told me he wanted her to use the dress, but he later reminded me that I was the one who typically dressed the children.
And Todd seems very stupid, tbh.
I told Todd to wash Chloe’s outfit so that he would n’t put her in it if I had to get her ready, and that he would have to make sure it would n’t go “missing.”
Todd complained to me that I was undermining his fatherhood freedom.
I explained to him that he was oblivious to our daughter’s choice because he was unable to dress her up herself. We did n’t leave because of this, which caused a fight.
Since it was n’t my side of the family I was n’t too angry but’s been a few days and Todd’s still upset.
AITA?
All of this over an OUTFIT?
It’s amazing that OP and Todd have advanced this far without a style faux pas incident!
According to Reddit, the issue appeared to be far bigger than just a plain onesie.
However, some people claimed that OP and her partner seemed to be just plain exhausting.
And while this person claimed that her husband had a bad habit of intentionally irritating her, she was even making a fortune off of a hill.
Ultimately, in the case of the older child, readers told OP to listen to what her baby wants to wear!
Good fortune to these poor boys, they’re gonna want it!
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