Our style writer offers advice to a young adult reader who is trying to stay current with their style during a difficult time in life.
I’m not certain when we first started obsessing over identifying ourselves by technology, around after Gen X, but before Gen Z, when marketing experts first grasped the concept and the pathologizing of all became a custom, but I’m not sure if it’s doing anyone any benefits. It seems to me that what you are experiencing is never actually related to the era to which you belong, but rather to the stage in which you are currently living.
Particularly, at the halfway stage of your young age when you no longer identify as either of you, when you have said farewell to your student personal, and are trying to figure out how your mature, independent self might appear. That’s a transitory period everybody has to manage, no matter what their minimum generation. The real problem is how to best outfit to make the most of it.
The first thing to know is that while, as a zillennial, you properly identify as entirely in-between, the special in-between clothing time you are experiencing is one of evolution — and it ends. You should think about adding a few wise pieces and adjustments to act as a bridge between where you were and where you are going (which is, admittedly, still T. B. D.) rather than commit to a completely new look.
However, the artist Tina Chai said, the truth may be to move in to the in-between. For example, taking your normal jeans— or even better, a high-waist, somewhat flared pair — and put a strapless mock turtleneck. With your arms bare, you create a body-skimming range while even playing with the idea of protection. ( And keep in mind to put a belt and slip in the bottom. Nothing can be combined like tucking a clothing in.
Another solution, Ms. Chai said, is a simple body-con clothing in a audio size. The skirt signals “adult”, but the cling adds some advice. Lastly, she advised considering “an enormous clothing or a longer trousers in a semi-sheer material like organza or lace,” which is another option that just seems stale.
“It’s all about balance and the mix”, she said. More room to play with other elements is evident when less complexion is revealed, which means more room to play with different factors.