All is expected to follow some activities because they are unspoken. For example, there is a common consensus that no one should dress to fancy or use bright until and unless the gathering adheres to a certain dress code on their wedding day. However, if one overreacts on their special day, things could turn sour. When her friend and number changed the course of events from being positive to negative, that is what happened. A 29- season- old lady was surprised when she wore a white and blue sundress to her sister’s baby shower, which apparently upset her friend.
“I have known ‘Claire’ for a while. A small group of friends has been companions with us ever since. Claire gave birth monday and is expecting. I wore a white and blue decorative sundress. I didn’t think anything of it because, as far as I know, white is only inappropriate for bridal events”, the woman shared. She noted that Claire started to cry and was quite chilly when she arrived for the baby shower.
“Later, one of my other friends pulled me aside and asked me to keep. She claimed that Claire was offended by my “attention-seeking behaviour” and that it was inappropriate to wear bright to Claire’s function. I left”, she explained. The girl looked as though the wedding dress code simply applied to white dresses. “Our friends are refusing to take sides, but a couple have told me I should apologize even if I don’t think I’m wrong”, the post concluded. She questioned Reddit about whether she was in the bad.
People jumped on the responses to show their support for the person. wrote, “You’re never bad. That’s not a thing. Are you certain that the dress’ colour was the cause of the problem? It seems nonsensical”. The girl, “I’ve been told it’s about the costume, but I’m starting to think it’s a body image factor. I’m hardly as slender as the other girls in the class. Even Claire is upset that she is, for very good purpose, the’ large’ one straight now.”The woman even of her gown in question.
“Could it have been about the violet rather than the light? Was she planning to reveal the identity of the baby to everyone at the group? You’re never at fault, if, unless there is a script in your/her society prohibiting selected colors at baby showers or unless she has asked you not to use certain colors. Although even if she asked you not to wear certain colors, I don’t think you’d be at fault. I don’t think host (ess) should tell their guests what to wear.” The fact that Claire had already disclosed to everyone that the child was a woman, made it not a gender reveal issue.
“Wearing a white or floral dress isn’t a reason to be harassed or asked to leave. It’s no attention- seeking. Being overweight, slender, or any other body type is also not a legitimate reason. These people were incredibly bad unless your gown was excessively short. You’d be better off without all of the people who attacked you because these people are no friends; they are enemies. This isn’t about the color of your dress. That was the heartless justification you were given. Whoever pulled you besides owes you an argument. Unless this is just hormones ( possible )… your ‘friend’ might not be one anymore.”
